Akaga ku bagabo bafite abagore bitangaho ingwate y’igitsina bashaka akazi

Yanditswe na Kanamugire Emmanuel
Kuya 4 Werurwe 2016 saa 01:49
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Ruswa ishingiye ku gitsina mu itangwa ry’akazi imaze igihe yumvikana hirya no hino benshi bavuga ko ari agahomamunwa!

Nkoresheje isanishamvugo mu ndimi z’amahanga, navuga ko ijambo ruswa rituruka ku nshinga y’Igifaransa “recevoir” isobanura kwakira,aho uyitanga abwira mugenzi we ngo “ reçois” bisobanura ngo “ akira”.Mu mihangayiko yo gushakisha akazi, hari igihe umugore yemerera uwo batashakanye ngo “reçois….”- akira, maze nkunde mbone akazi.

Ishimishamubiri rishingiye ku gitsina rikorwa mu ibanga rikomeye,ku buryo iyo bikozwe n’umugore, hari igihe umugabo we atabimenya, kuko baba batabyumvikanyeho, bityo akabona akazi gatangwa ariko ntamenye iyo gaturutse.

Umugore utanze iyo ruswa ashaka akazi, ashobora no kwakira impano ikungahaye ku burozi bukamukoraho, ibyitwaga akazi bigahinduka akabi.

Muri iyo ngirwa bushabitsi, igitsinagore, abashatse cyangwa abakiri ingaragu bakomeje gushyirwa mu majwi, aho bavugwaho gushukwa n’abagabo.

Kwitangaho ingwate y’akazi ku mubyeyi ukifuza bikwiye gufatwa nk’icyaha gikomeye ndetse kibangamiye umuryango, kuko utanga iyo ruswa aba atabanje kubyumvikanaho n’abo mu rugo rwe, yaba umugabo cyangwa abana, ngo abyitwaze mu gushakira urugo amahaho. Umugabo ufite umugore utanga icyo giturire ashobora kubona urugo rwe rusenyutse nk’imvura izimya umuyonga wo mu ruhira.

Birashoboka ko hari abantu batazi ko ruswa ishingiye ku gitsina ari icyaha gihanwa n’amatageko. Abadafite akazi kubera impamvu zitandukanye bakeka ko gutanga imibiri yabo bidahanirwa igihe cyose badafashwe mpiri bakora ayo marorerwa.

Ingingoya 12 na 16 z’itegeko No 23/2003 rirabigaragaza, aho rivuga ko ‘umuntu wese,ku buryo bweruye cyangwa buteruye,ukoresha ishimishamubiri rishingiye ku gitsina cyangwa utanga amasezerano yo kuzarikoresha kugira ngo ahabwe serivisi runaka, ahanishwa igifungo kuva ku myaka itatu kugeza ku myaka itanu n’ihazabu kuva ku mafaranga y’u Rwanda 50,000 kugeza kuri 1,000,000.

Ubu se koko iri tegeko ntirisobanutse? Hari abashaka kurigoreka cyangwa bakeka ko kutaryubahiriza nta ngaruka byabagiraho,iyo batanga ubwo bwoko bwa ruswa y’ishimishamubiri. Ushobora gushimisha umubiri ejo ukaguhinduka, dore ko ubyara udahatse.

Uwububa abonwa n’uhagaze

Nta muntu n’umwe ushobora gushingira ko atazi itegeko ngo naryica ribure kumuhana. Umuco wo gusoma ukomeje kwihisha abantu. Ariko se no kubaza hari icyo bitwaye ? Ngo ukura utabaza,ugasaza utamenye !

Gutanga iyo ruswa ntibyemewe ku muntu uwo ari we wese,niy o mpamvu n’abayitanga bakwiriye kwishakishamo imbaraga zo kuyizinukwa kugira ngo ejo badahanwa n’itegeko.

Ujya gutanga cyangwa guhabwa ibyo bintu ntabikorera ku mugaragaro nk’uko umuntu yajya ku isoko kugura dodo cyangwa ikijumba. Akenshi bifungirana mu byumba, bagashyiraho akugi,cyangwa bakitwikira ijoro mu modoka,mu tubari,bakambara « ukuri », ntacyo bahishanya.

Yaba umugabo ushukana cyangwa umugore utabyumva, nta hantu na hamwe ushobora kwihisha itegeko, ryaba iry’Imana cyangwa iryashyizweho n’abantu. Niyo mpamvu, n’iyo ugenda wububa,cyangwa witwikiriye ijoro,itegeko rikureba nk’uko inyoni yitegereza ibibera ku isi yibereye mu kirere.

Ruswa ishingiye ku gitsina ni iteshagaciro

Ruswa nk’iyo itangwa n’abagore,igahabwa abagabo. Abayitanga ni abantu bakuze kandi baba bazi icyo bakora. Niyo mpamvu bari bakwiye kuyirinda nk’abantu bakuru kandi bakamenya ko itesha agaciro,bityo uyifatiwemo akirengera ingaruka zayo.

Abagore n’abakobwa bafite agaciro gakomeye mu muryango nyarwanda, bityo iyo batanze iyo ruswa,hari byinshi bishobora kwangirika.Muri ibyo twavugamo ;

-  Gusenya ubumwe n’ireme by’umuryango

-  Gutakaza icyubahiro n’indangagaciro bya muntu

-  Kwandura indwara zandurira mu mibonano mpuzabitsina

-  Kwanduza abagabo indwara ku buryo butunguranye

-  Gusesagura umutungo w’umuryango no kutawuha agaciro

-  Gutwara inda zitateganyijwe cyane ku batarashaka

-  Kuba isoko y’amakimbirane adashira mu ngo z’abashakanye

-  Gukora icyaha gikomeye imbere y’Imana ku bayemera (ngo ubusambanyi ni icyaha gikomeye kuko gikorerwa imbere mu mubiri,…)

-  Gushakira indonke aho zitakagombye kuva

-  Kwangiza uburere mboneragihugu n’ubw’abana by’umwihariko

-  Kugwiza ubuhendanyi uhabwa ibyo utavunikiye

Ibindi simbivuze kandi sinzabivumba! Gusa ibi bivuzwe haruguru birareba n’abagabo,kuko nta wasaba ruswa ngo anayihe,ahubwo ayihabwa n’uwo yayisabye iyo amaze kubyemera.

Nta wavuga rero ko hashobora kuboneka umugabo wiyemeza cyangwa wemerera umugore we gukora ibyo bintu. N’uwabigerageza, akwiriye kumenya ko akoze ifatanyacyaha,bityo itegeko rikaba ryamuha igihano kingana n’icy’umugore wayitanze.

Urugero natanga ni uko, amaze gushukwa n’inzoka muri Paradizo, Eva yasoromye imbuto , yamara kumva uburyohe bwayo ,akayishyira umugabo we Adamu,bose bagahanishwa igihano kimwe ,kandi gikarishye. Byabaviriyemo kwirukanwa muri Paradizo batangira akazi ko guhinga mu mahwa y’ibitovu kuko bari basuzuguye itegeko ry’Imana.

Uretse n’abantu, ngo n’imbeba yakurikiranye akaryoshye munsi y’ibuye ihakura inda y’akabati!


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